+TruFemcels

Welcome to +TruFemcels! This sub is a female-only community.

TruFemcels is a safe space that caters to femcels and women who relate to them for the purpose of discussion, venting, support, and community.

What is a femcel?

A femcel or a female celibate is an adult woman who is below average in physical appearance (<4/10) or suffers a significant impediment that prevents her from securing a romantic relationship- NOT sex.

Sex is available to most (not all) women so long as it is done IN SERVICE of men. This DOES NOT resolve loneliness and is often the pretext for abusive power dynamics.

In a culture where lookism means many men feel comfortable mistreating women they use sexually but are not attracted to, many femcels rely on celibacy to protect them from the worst of casual sex culture.

The world is unkind to the unattractive women. Here, you can be brutally honest about it, seek a way OUT of femceldom, or find comfort if you're stuck. Take heart. Make yourself at home. ❤️

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Message to Newcomers: Femcels are Objectively Ugly Women, not Delusional Plain Janes

There are now, what, six different articles about femcels floating around different media websites? This is a message to anyone who...

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What Do Female Incels Really Want? - The Atlantic

so the new article which apparently is responsible for the new influx of male incels here - continiuation of [this...

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If you could have PS, what would you get?

Title explains. Personally, chin fillers or implant, forehead implant, lip lift and lip fillers.

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Being a femcel is worst in cultures that has concept of arranged marriages

I mean being a femcel is already bad as it is but its even worst in cultures that puts huge pressure on women to get married, that has...

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Someone in my class (uni) who I would always help out and be nice to now avoids me like the plague and like I'm the most disgusting...

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I can't even put even small amount of efforts into my looks without getting weird looks

Even slight effort in your appearance like dressing up brings more attention to how ugly you are...atleast this is how it is for me. If...

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I have exhausted all my options

I tried everything imaginable to change my face but it didnt work because its my fucking bone structure thats fucked up. I regularly...

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Being unattractive has made me mentally deficient

It's like being unattractive has made me even more dumb, like I have trouble thinking right and I don't make the most smart choices...

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Have there been cases were femcels whether on forums like here or reddit or on news, they have killed themself?

Have there been cases where someone whether femcels or just ugly people have killed themself ? I'm just curious how many have been...

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Have you had experiences with men that haunt you? Missed opportunities (or as close to those as you will be permitted to get)?

I'm writing about this because it only happened once in my entire life - the experience normie women taken for granted from 14 until...

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When people say men would fuck anything or talk about some women being just "pump and dump" material

There is also a certain looks threshold for that. I think it could be for those who are slightly below average, they could be used for...

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How would average women react, if one day men were to start treating them the same way they treat average men?

Just read the entire comment section and remember that these are the sincere opinions of people out there. People who genuinely think...

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need guidance

going through a lot of things right now and in need of genuine guidance from anyone that could give it you are all so articulate and...

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What I Learned from Never Experiencing “Romantic” Love
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Reddit

sorry this is so long. I wrote it in a state. -- I'm addicted to reddit. It is often the most active forum I can use to talk to...

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Rent a friend

After reading this story about cancerous femcel being scammed by an escort I looked up whether there’re friends for hire. Apparently,...

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I fell asleep listening to a 'bf asmr' video and now I'm embarrassed

I used to casually listen to those years ago but listening to one again as an adult and accidentally falling asleep to it is so...

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Even stacies get huge amounts of shit from other stacies

I have to say, in some way this made me feel a bit better - even if I was conventionally attractive, then it doesn't mean I still...

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Perfect Femcel Anthem
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Logged into Insta; Hit with Immediate Regret

1) Seeling Stacies I went to school with with subpar personalities that were popular and loved because they were pretty (This particular...

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more females going without sex than men now?
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The Nuclear Option for Jaw Surgery: Going Abroad

Femcels (and incels alike) will often have jaw issues and need double jaw surgery to achieve normie status. I have an extremely recessed...

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we are so forgiving of beautiful people: rant

long crazy rant about bella hadid, celebrity worship, modelling industry, pretty vs ugly celebs trigger warning for eating...

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How many good people (non-lookist) have you met?

It's a choice to treat everyone with basic human decency and to be aware of beauty bias (halo effect) and modify your behaviour...

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Numb and dull as a defense mechanism

I think if I allow myself fully feel the horror of my situation I’d break. So I try to focus on small things and not self-reflect much....

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If Your Life Feels Incomplete Without a Romantic Relationship, Start Here | by Renata Gomes | Acid Sugar | Medium

> Studies have found that single women without children “are the ones who have invested in their social circles, so typically, they are...

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