there's a reason all the Beckies and Stacies in FDS complain about dating despite being beautiful.

beauty only attracts more variety and more men in numbers. that means you get exposed to too many LVM and just a few HVM who are worthy and good for relationships.

unfortunately dating is a numbers game bc if you keep vetting men strictly you are likely to meet a HVM eventually. so yes Beckies and Stacies have better chances at finding a HVM than a normie or a femcel.

also women bellow Beckies won't likely attract a HVM no matter how wide they try to widen their net in dating bc unfortunately even HVM value pretty women and they are polite or kind to women they don't find attractive.

but never ever think beauty guarantees long term commitment from men.

beauty means that all kinds of men are willing to fake to be a decent human being and sometimes they are willing to fake commitment but that doesn't last more than a couple of months maximum a year.

we often see posts by Stacies about how they get pumped and dumped. if guys would actually commit for beauty then we wouldn't see all these posts and we wouldn't have all these baddie breakup songs.

yes men are more willing to take you on dinner dates if you are beautiful. yes men are more willing to pay for things if you are beautiful. but that doesn't last a life time, that lasts the honeymoon phrase.

somehow men have destroyed themselves. somehow they delusioned themselves into thinking that they can be bachelors until their late 30s even if they want kinds. they delusioned themselves into thinking that they have to get a new woman bc the sex gets boring, they can't imagine themselves to commit to a woman for a life anymore. men went from seeing women as private property to seeing women as public property. men destroyed their brains and libidos with porn. men destroyed their commitment to their women by exposing themselves to other beautiful women and not even trying to fight back that exposure.

all in all most men are so broken that not even the beauty of Beckies or Stacies can salvage these relationships.

yes it must be nice to experience fake kindness, fake commitment from men bc mostly you don't know if it's fake. yes it must be nice to feel cherished bc men pay for things for you. but these men will leave you the moment they realise you are a human being. the moment you show signs of aging. the moment you express affection to them bc they see it as desperation. the moment you get pregnant or become a mother. the moment you get seriously sick (e.g. cancer).

also you only see glimpses of the relationships of Beckies and Stacies. yes they may cuddle, hug, kiss, hold hands on the street but he is likely trying to turn every soft moment into sex. yes they might be cute in photos and on social media but he likely doesn't try to organise fun dates. they might laugh and have fun on fun dates but he likely plays dumb when it comes to relationship issues, he likely avoids conversations about the future.

all in all stop beating yourself up for not being a Becky/Stacy. whether Beckies/Stacies truly get better relationships bc of their beauty or not that doesn't change our, women who are bellow Beckies, reality. mourn the fact that you likely won't have a happy relationship. allow yourself to work through that grief (I still do that). if you really really want to don't give up on dating. BUT DON'T FORGET TO MAKE SOMETHING OF YOUR LIFE.

yes you are NOT a Becky or Stacy. But that doesn't end your life. and life has got SO MUCH MORE to offer than men's cruelity and lies.

edit: example on why beauty doesn't guarantee long term commitment from men: https://thepinkpill.co/+PinkPilledNormies/post/20p/again-beauty-doesnt-guarantee-long-term